Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Just A Thought October 31, 2008

"Love is unconditional, relationships are not."

When you compromise yourself for love, be prepared to be on the losing side. For the very thing we gain by compromise, we will eventually lose. Views, opinions, and positions can all be compromised. Your self respect cannot. There has to be a line, and when that line is crossed, THAT has to be it. Second chances become third, fifth, and seventh chances. While the time to be clear about boundaries is in the beginning, the moment something feels wrong to you is the moment it needs to be addressed. "Anything goes" is a cool attitude for an Ultimate Fighting Championship match, but not for your heart. When you've had enough say so, and move along keeping in mind that:

"The stupidest mistake in life is thinking the one who hurt you the most, won't hurt you again."

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